Making Sense of Family Business

Thanks for stopping by, I'm Jon Kenfield, the host of the Family Business Challenge series: Making Sense of Family Business. I share my learnings from almost 3 decades of working as a Solutionist with real Business Families - by exploring 50 of the most common causes of conflict I've dealt with. I also explain how to prevent, avoid, and resolve those conflicts. For every acknowledged problem a solution can be found, or constructed. My goal is to help you make more sense of Family Business, whether you're in one, or trying to advise one or many. 🌐 https://solutionist.com.au/ 🟦 https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-solutionist-group/ 🟥 https://www.youtube.com/@thesolutionistgroup/videos ✉️ jonk@solutionist.com.au 📞 0414 816 789

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Latest episodes

02 June 2026

Collaboration

Cause #34

In this episode, I explore why collaboration and teamwork — two concepts that seem obvious in theory — so often collapse inside business families. I explain how informal, relationship‑based ways of working break down as the business grows, and how the clash between the family’s emotional system and the business’s performance system creates chaos, decision paralysis, role confusion, and low‑trust cultures. I also unpack the deeper drivers of conflict: inherited temperament, family‑of‑origin dynamics, unresolved emotional baggage, childhood roles carried into adulthood, and the tension between romantic “families should just work” thinking and the realist need for structure and governance. Finally, I outline practical strategies to rebuild collaboration: turning “we before me” into a lived value, teaching teamwork early, building resilience through responsibility, normalising constructive disagreement, developing emotional intelligence, and involving children in family meetings sooner than most families expect — all with the goal of creating a family that not only loves each other, but loves working together.

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26 May 2026

Silence & Secrecy

Cause #33

In this episode, I explore how silence and secrecy quietly undermine family businesses far more often than open conflict ever does. I explain how passive silence allows issues to ferment underground, while active secrecy sends a damaging message of mistrust that can fracture relationships at home and at work. I also unpack the psychological dynamics behind these patterns — from the “pressure cooker” effect in emotionally restrained families to the contrasting resilience of more expressive cultures — and outline the five elements of balanced communication that families must master to prevent assumptions, fear, and hidden resentments from taking over. Finally, I offer practical strategies to build a culture of openness: teaching communication skills early, modelling emotional intelligence, implementing family business best practices, separating intent from impact, and using neutral facilitators when needed. The goal is simple: help families say enough, say it early, say it well, and say it with respect, so problems don’t multiply in the dark.

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19 May 2026

Bloodline Rivalry

Cause #32

In this episode, I explore how bloodline rivalry evolves from childhood sibling competition into one of the most powerful and destructive forces in multi‑generational business families. I explain how each branch of a family develops its own identity, narrative, and expectations — and how these stories, repeated over decades, can harden into entitlement, resentment, and competing claims over wealth, status, and control. I also unpack the hidden drivers behind bloodline conflict, including unequal access to information, parental favouritism, strategic manipulation, and the absence of strong governance systems. Using a real‑world case study, I show how unresolved rivalries can paralyse decision‑making and even destroy family wealth. Finally, I outline practical strategies to prevent these dynamics from taking hold: teaching constructive collaboration early, helping the next generation understand fairness vs equality, co‑creating governance structures, holding regular family forums, and building a long‑term family plan that clarifies roles, responsibilities, and purpose. The goal is to help families replace rivalry with unity — and protect both the business and the relationships that sustain it.

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13 May 2026

Marriage & Divorce

Cause #31

In this episode, I explore how marriage, de facto relationships, separation, divorce, and blended families become powerful catalysts for conflict in business families. I explain how new partners bring their own values, expectations, and influence into the family system, and how legal realities — including de facto rights and the limits of trusts — can expose the business to significant financial risk. I also unpack the emotional dynamics that arise when spouses influence decision‑making, when perceptions of favouritism emerge, or when divorce triggers stress, secrecy, and system‑wide instability. Drawing on real‑world examples, I show how poorly managed relationship transitions can freeze assets, derail succession plans, and fracture family unity. Finally, I outline practical strategies to protect both the family and the business: strong governance systems, mandatory binding financial agreements, clear entry and exit policies for spouses, open communication, and long‑term family planning that reduces the power of hidden agendas. The aim is to help families navigate modern relationships without jeopardising their legacy.

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10 February 2026

Spousal & Partner Influence on Decision-Making

Cause #30

In this episode, I explore how spousal influence can become a powerful force for either stability or conflict in business families. I explain how supportive partners can bring fresh perspective, strengthen the family member they’re with, and reduce tension, while destructive partners can amplify resentment, isolate family members, and even weaponise family dynamics around succession, inheritance, and control. I also outline common spousal roles- protector, interpreter, booster, diplomat, advisor- and the higher-risk patterns such as gold diggers or dominating partners, arguing that the deeper issue is usually the family’s lack of governance. Finally, I share practical strategies to protect both the family and the business: clear family plans, structured governance and policies (including onboarding spouses and binding financial agreements), regular inclusive family forums, early action when warning signs appear, and using independent advisors to handle sensitive issues professionally.

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03 February 2026

Family Governance - Strategy, Structures, Systems & Skills

Cause #29

In this episode, I explain why strong family governance is one of the most critical foundations for long-term success in business families. I show how governance helps manage the natural tension between the family as an emotional system and the business as a commercial system by replacing assumptions with clarity, structure, and agreed rules. I outline how effective family governance - through clear vision, shared commitment, long-term strategy, family councils, documented systems, and the skills to implement them - prevents conflict, supports succession, and enables families to act as good stewards of their legacy rather than being derailed by unresolved family dynamics.

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